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Opeyemi Ogunleye
schrieb am 28. November 2024 um 8.27 Uhr

Oreoluwa Han’s,

We miss you deeply—your papa, mama, and brother miss you so terribly. Life has never been the same without you. I hope they, and all of us, find a way to live a life you would have wanted, full of love and joy.

You changed our lives forever. You made me an aunt for the first time, and your role in our family will always be unforgettable. Your influence remains indelible, etched in our hearts. Deep grief is truly the price we pay for deep love, and we continue to honor your memory with everything we do.

Sweetheart, we love you endlessly. Happy posthumous birthday, my darling. I loved you in life and never stopped, even in death.


Opeyemi Ogunleye (aunt)

Omoladun
schrieb am 28. November 2024 um 0.59 Uhr

Dear OreOluwa,
Your memories are blessed and you remain forever alive and special in my heart. My love, you are so wonderful and you are truly missed here physically but I believe you are happy there as you always sang of the streets of Gold.
We do not have the strength to go through your absence but we trusted the Holy Spirit and we know we are receiving necessary help.
It is hard to imagine what your buddies ( Dad and brother) and your mum had to live with every passing day but just as sweet as you are while here, your impact and nice words must have been an anchor for them.
I look forward to holding on to you so tightly when we meet again not to depart forever.
I really really miss you Prince OreOluwa Hans Oluwagbemigun. Your girl- Oluwatumininu talks about how much she loves you and got a locket with your name inscribed. Temilorun wished he had time to learn more soccer moves from you. You left an indelible mark on the side of eternity.
Sleep on, sweet angel ……Your aunt

Omoladun
schrieb am 6. Januar 2024 um 7.18 Uhr

Oreoluwa Hans,
The pain of your departure is too deep and unfortunately Irreparable. I miss you so very much, Oreoluwa mi. You remain forever in my heart and you will never be forgotten. Every milestone in our family will resonate Prince Oreoluwa Hans because you are a significant part of us.
I have been answering a lot of questions from Tumininu and Temilorun about You, God, life and death but not sure how well. I can't help myself, we ask God for his peace in us Your cousins are keeping the memories of the times you shared with them, your gifts and learning some your skills in your honor. Your legacy, we will uphold.
Sleep well my love, Oreoluwa Hans. Till we meet again

Kolade Oluwagbemigun (Papa)
schrieb am 28. November 2023 um 12.02 Uhr

Hallo Oreoluwa Hans,

heute wärst du 12 Jahre alt geworden. Ich liebe dich so sehr, mein Sohn und Buddy, und vermisse dich sehr. Letztes Jahr haben ich, Mama, du und Iyioluwa Sepp uns gemeinsam an den Händen gehalten und für dich gebetet. Wir haben das Lied auf Yoruba gesungen" Ich weiß, dass es dir gut gehen wird. Ich glaube an Jesus, dass du erfolgreich sein wirst. Deine Zukunft wird großartig sein. Alle Dinge werden zu deinem Besten wirken". Ich hoffe, dass eines der Überraschungsgeschenke (ein neues Klavier), das ich dir schenken wollte, Teil deiner Geschenke sein wird. Ich habe deinen Garten schön gemacht und gehe fast täglich dorthin. Ich versuche, mich anzupassen und so gut wie möglich zu leben.
Ich werde mich an der Hoffnung festhalten, dass ich dich eines Tages im Himmel wiedersehen werde.

Dein Kolade (Papa)

Fifa
schrieb am 28. November 2023 um 10.23 Uhr

Hans,
jedes Mal, wenn ich dieses Lied, Victory song, höre, muss ich natürlich an dich denken. Auch Charice, Chaniel und Johanes denken oft an dich. Ich weiß, dass du jetzt wirklich in den liebenden Armen Gottes bist und ich freue mich über die Kraft des Heiligen Geistes, der mich daran erinnert, dass Sterben ein Gewinn für denjenigen ist, der Jesus Christus liebt und ihm dient. Und bei dir war deine Liebe zu Christus zweifellos spürbar.
Du bist und bleibst ein Segen für mein Leben.

Aunty Fifa

Omoladun Omole
schrieb am 28. November 2023 um 6.38 Uhr

My son,
You are indeed a living sacrifice and a seed planted by the riverside bringing out fruits in due season, a tree blossoming to give shelter and hope.
Your life gave me a better understanding of Life and how the privilege of a breath should be taken as an opportunity to fulfill purpose- You didn't waste any moment but impacted people and discussed all necessary with your family (you left a trace).
I know you are an angel, bearer of good tidings of great joy and the testaments of your life here are very humbling. Your memories are sweet, they put smiles on my face even when I am teary, and everyone I mention your journey here to never hesitates to acknowledge your relevance.
Spirit of Just men made perfect. It has not been only gloomy, I have had reasons to be grateful and I wish you were here to celebrate with us but I believe you are happy and excited too in eternity.
I choose to celebrate your life today, the anniversary of your birth like Christmas - we were visited as a testament of "for GOD so loved the Oluwagbemigun and he gave" us you. I cannot wait to have the essence of your visit and relationship restored to our family in multiple folds and forms. I have decided to believe only GOD no matter what happens.
Rest on, God's general! your memories are blessed and remain fresh forever in my heart. I will always talk about your sweet soul all my life.

Papa, mama and Sepp, Please hold on to hope and Oreoluwa's sermon of believing GOD only who is the Restorer and beautifier.

Omoladun Omole (Aunt)

Kolade Oluwagbemigun (Papa)
schrieb am 20. Juli 2023 um 7.48 Uhr

Hans, mein kostbares Juwel. Ich liebe dich so sehr und vermisse dich jeden Moment. Gott hat mir ein Zeichen gegeben, dass du die Briefe erhältst, die ich dir jeden Tag schicke. Auf diesem schmerzhaften Weg hat mir nichts so sehr geholfen wie deine Worte z. B. "Do not believe everything that people say. You can believe them three times, but believe God hundred times because God will never fail you. Even if one is dead or alive he or she should still believe in God"-Oreoluwa Hans Oluwagbemigun 8/6/2017. Du bist und wirst unvergesslich sein. Das verspreche ich dir!

Kolade

Kolade Oluwagbemigun (Papa)
schrieb am 30. Mai 2023 um 9.43 Uhr

Unvergesslich! - Mein wunderbarer Hans, mein Sohn, mein Bruder und mein Freund💕😘

Opeyemi Ogunleye (aunt)
schrieb am 23. Februar 2023 um 17.51 Uhr

Dear Oreoluwa, our sweet angel,
I have been torn and broken trying to write this; in the midst of my pain and tears, I've decided to honor and remember the life of my dear Oreoluwa. Though you were only with us for a short time, you touched the hearts of so many, and your memory will live on forever.

Oreoluwa, you were a remarkable young boy who brought joy and happiness to all those around him. You radiated love, your smile and spirit were contagious, and you left an indelible mark on everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you.

I choose to celebrate your life and all the beautiful moments we shared. Your visit to see me in last trip to Nigeria keep replaying in my mind. I chose to sow you as a seed because your death and hearing about the great impact your life had is a wake-up call that I have been slacking in Kingdom matters. I'm looking forward to several Kingdom harvests.

I am drawing comfort and peace in knowing you're with family; God the Father and the spirit of just men. I am praying for strength to deal with your transition and to stand by your Papa, Mama and Sepp.

Rest in peace, Oreoluwa. You will be deeply missed, forever loved and never be forgotten. Till we meet to part no more.

Marvin
schrieb am 18. Februar 2023 um 22.33 Uhr

Lieber Hans,

nun ist etwas Zeit vergangen...wir vermissen dich sehr und besuchen dich regelmäßig mit unseren Gedanken und lassen regelmäßig eine Rose für dich da.

Der Schmerz bleibt. Bennett fragt öfter nach dir und fragt, wie es dir nun im Himmel geht...

Ich sage ihm dann, dass du von oben auf uns herunter schaust und jetzt eine schöne Zeit im Himmel hast, mit vielen Freunden...und viel lachst und glücklich bist - bestimmt spielst du auch viel Fußball.

Du bleibst unvergessen.

Wir denken an dich...

Deine Freunde,

Marvin, Merlinda, Bennett und Soulin.

Kayode: Uncle
schrieb am 15. Februar 2023 um 23.42 Uhr

Oreoluwa. Thank you.
First of the generation. Thank you for the hope you gave all us. Keep watching over those you left behind. I will not grieve, no I will not. I know you would have loved to meet OLUWATISE. I and Ayanfeoluwa will tell her about you.
Thank you.
1 Peter 2: 9

Omoladun Omole
schrieb am 15. Februar 2023 um 21.25 Uhr

Dear Oreoluwa,


You are my baby boy, you brought so much joy and happiness when you arrived. I was the first to see your bright eyes staring in one direction barely a month after you were born and landed in Nigeria.
You made me an Aunt for the very first time. I was so worried for your papa and mama when you were to be born in Denmark but God ensured you came to brighten our family despite all odds.
The Prince- you are indeed a Prince, your royalty was announced and proclaimed everywhere you appear (from kindergarten to after)
My Angel- you bring with you that peace and tranquility that no one could explain ( the aura is strong now even while I write)
You smile melts the hardest heart- little wonder why everyone you came across never forgets their encounter no matter how short.
I wish I knew your last holiday in July would be the last time I will smell your sweet spirit and the fragrance of your body. You clamped your girl on your back while you played football- I watched with so much joy that you both bonded so well and was surprised when she was trying to remind you of the cinema in BONN to watch ' Despicable ME' in 2017.
Oreoluwa, Tumininu is missing you so badly even though I have no courage to tell her of your demise. She has been asking if you were back home and also back to your soccer( football)- my answer was YES but not in your house made with bricks, stones and sand. She said you are a piece of the Puzzle of God's hand. I know you really are, my Son.
I believed you prayed that she came over but she was looking up to you as a big cousin. Oreoluwa, I believe you are with Jesus now and you can see us here. I believe your last birthday prayer for her will keep her through Life.

I remembered we sang together the song " l'oruko Jesu mo fowo soya, ayo lemi o fi lo odun yi ja" played football together with I as the goal keeper.
I wish I knew this was coming, I wouldn't have allowed you leave my side for a second, maybe I will hug you so tightly to last a lifetime.
Thank you for spending your last moments with everyone that matters to you and ensuring your left a souvenir behind.

Oreoluwa my Son, I see you as a similitude of Jesus to this family. You actually reconciled us to God, you mended broken bridges, open the prison doors for the captive and now the broken hearted will be bonded. Please advocate that God help us especially your Papa, Mama, Iyioluwa and grandparents through this and that the purpose in the pain of your departure be made evident in no distance time because we are presently perplexed.

We want you to be here with us in flesh but you had to leave us to feel your spirit and this soothing cool breeze when I am uncontrollably teary. I know you will not leave us uncomforted because you're only happy when people around you are.
You are a seed, a planting and we eagerly await the fruits as we have sown in much tears, we will reap in abundant Joy.

You came, saw, conquered death in victory. You walked with God like Enoch.

You left a trace, Oreoluwa.
I love so much and you will never be forgotten.

Dear God,
Please keep my son - Oreoluwa Hans in the closest part of your heart, let him get to know that we cherish the short and impactful time he had with us and that our grief and hurt is that we wanted more. I believe he is a visiting Angel and now a guardian Angel. I asked that the grace and auction he carried be restored.

Papa, Mama, Sepp- May the good Lord uphold you, make his face shine on you and give you peace.
You will find solace in everything that God will bring your way.

Omoladun- Your Aunt

Mareike
schrieb am 13. Februar 2023 um 11.57 Uhr

Lieber Hans,

ohne dich ist nichts mehr wie es war…
Du hast eine sooo große Lücke hinterlassen.
Wir vermissen dich so sehr!
Wir vermissen dein Strahlen, deine liebevolle Art, deine Fürsorge - immer hast du an die anderen gedacht, hast immer dafür gesorgt, dass alle um dich herum glücklich waren und sich gut fühlten. Du hast zurückgesteckt um andere dadurch glücklich zu machen. Du warst immer so zufrieden, fröhlich, höflich, liebevoll und einfach so liebenswert. Du warst ein ganz besonderes Kind, ja du warst heilig und hattest ein goldenes Herz. DU hast uns gezeigt, was wirklich wichtig ist im Leben.

Was bleibt, sind traurige Kinderseelen, die ihren wichtigen Freund verloren haben, ihren Fels in der Brandung, der sie immer aufgefangen hat, wenn sie traurig waren und der sie einfach immer fröhlich gemacht hat. Du warst der Mittelpunkt hier bei den Kindern und der, mit dem immer alle zusammen sein wollten. Wir hatten dich immer gerne um uns herum und du hast allen mit deiner fröhlichen Art und deinem liebevollen Wesen einfach gut getan.
Was bleibt, sind noch nie dagewesene Gefühle… Gefühle die so weh tun, die einem das Herz zerreißen und mit denen nun alle lernen müssen umzugehen.
Wir reden viel über dich, schauen uns Bilder von dir an und erinnern uns an die vielen schönen gemeinsamen Momente…

Jeden Tag sind unsere Gedanken bei deiner lieben Mama, deinem liebevollen Papa und deinem starken, kleinen Bruder Sepp… Sie haben ihr wertvollstes verloren und wie mögen sie sich wohl fühlen, wenn es uns schon so weh tut… Dieser Gedanke ist kaum zu ertragen. Ihr fester Glaube und die unendliche Liebe zu dir, wird ihnen sicher helfen „weiterzumachen“.

Annelie fragt sich jeden Tag, ob du sie wohl von da oben sehen und hören kannst… Sie würde dich so gerne ein allerletztes Mal sehen und möchte dich fragen, wie es dir im Himmel geht. Manchmal besuchst du sie in ihren Träumen. Das ist schön, darüber freut sie sich immer. Leider wird sie jedes Mal wach, wenn du mit ihr reden möchtest.
Leonard versucht für alle stark zu sein und vermisst dich eher still und leise… Er hat immer alles stehen und liegen gelassen, wenn du bei uns geklingelt hast um mit ihm zu spielen. Das war immer das Größte für ihn.

Immer wenn ich aus dem Küchenfenster schaue, denke ich an dich, wie du mir strahlend zugewunken hast oder singend den Müll weggebracht hast… Oder ich euch Vieren einfach beim Spielen im Hof zuschaute… Wertvolle Erinnerungen für die ich sehr dankbar bin.

Lieber Hans, danke für die schöne Zeit mit dir. Danke, dass du so ein guter Freund warst. Danke für deine Fröhlichkeit an der du uns immer hast teilhaben lassen.

Im Himmel können alle froh sein einen neuen Engel wie dich zu haben. Du hast es nicht verdient so früh aus dem Leben gerissen zu werden, aber du warst einfach für Höheres bestimmt. Nur Gott weiß, warum er dich so früh zu sich geholt hat. Wir glauben fest daran, dass du nun fröhlich als Engel auf einer Wolke sitzt und über uns alle wachst… Irgendwann sehen wir uns wieder!

Bis dahin behalten wir dich für immer fest in unseren Herzen❣️

Deine Mareike
Dein Leonard
Deine Annelie
Dein Christoph

Mary-Ann Onuegbu
schrieb am 11. Februar 2023 um 10.37 Uhr

Dear Hans,

I’ve known your Mama and Papa since before you were born. That is why I know that your birth changed their life forever. I remember your Mama telling me about your names and why they chose Oreoluwa. I remember us playing indoor football at the apartment in Potsdam and you screaming “Torrr!” I remember you being the best big brother to Sepp. I remember all the pictures of you boys cooking with Mama in your gorgeous aprons and chef hats. I remember the day we spent walking around Bonn and your excitement about everything. I watched your parents become the best versions of themselves as they raised you boys. I told your Mama that they were doing a wonderful job with you lot because you were growing up to be such brilliant, emotionally intelligent, and well-adjusted chaps.

You lived a full life, Hans. I believe this to be true. We really would have loved to have you for much longer, but we must now go on without you. So farewell, Bright Star, and light the path for us as we journey on. Your memory will endure in the hearts of those who love you.

Adieu.

Mary-Ann

Kolade Oluwagbemigun (Papa)
schrieb am 9. Februar 2023 um 13.12 Uhr

Dear Ọrẹolúwa Adédoyin Edafe Hans Oluwagbemigun,

I remember you everyday buddy, pal, bro [as you often call me]. I remember holding you immediately you were borne and praying for you. I felt God was with us that day. I remember your sweet smile the last night we talked and I told you how wonderful, kind, and intelligent you are. I celebrate your amazing impact in my life as your dad and friend. I still struggle with the pain and the reality that you are gone and I will not see you again until I join you in heaven. Getting back to normal life is challenging and overwhelming. Our home has become strangely silent, meal times and prayer times have become different. Our games of four people have become three. It is hard to come to terms with the fact that I will not get hugs from you again. We will not be able to do our customised hand shakes, and I will not be able to kiss you on the forehead and tell you, "God bless you in Jesus Name" and you reply with "Amen". Although I would give everything to have you with me here on earth, but since you are not I am glad and confident that you are in heaven in the presence of our Lord Jesus, fully known, fully alive, playing your composed songs on a piano and dancing on the streets of gold. I promise to be devoted to your memory. I chose to live with the hope that our love and friendship for each other cannot be constrained by time and your earthly departure (death), as we say, "Freunde, Für immer". For me, your death won't have the last word. My grief will last just as long as and feel just as potent as the love I have for you. However, I have decided to keep trusting and have faith in God through our Lord Jesus Christ. The faith that He will walk with me, Mama, and Sepp through our grief. The grace to build confidence in His faithfullness and receive the outpouring of His grace through this difficult journey on the path of healing. I will send messages to you every day through prayers. I hope you get them. I am glad to have had such a lovely boy share my life. I will always keep you in my heart. I love you so much buddy.

Yours,
Papa